Parenting Teens Blog

September 13, 2010

Teen Stress Facts and Statistics

Teen stress is a common thing; in the end we all feel stress, some more, some less. There has not yet been a detailed teen stress study, but according to previous research and common sense we know that all teens feel stress, how deep that goes it’s yet to be determined, but it is a fact that over 10% of teens suffers from an anxiety disorder.

A recent study researching the teen stress revealed the following statistics, the top 5 causes of teen stress:

1.    School work 68%
2.    Parents 56%
3.    Friends problems and issues 53%
4.    Romantic type of relationship 48%
5.    Drugs and bad neighborhoods 48%

Most often experienced causes of stress include:

1.    School work 78%
2.    Parents 68%
3.    Relationships 64%
4.    Friends and problems with friends 64%
5.    Younger brothers and sisters 64%

From the same study the following stats were concluded in relation to teens coping with stress for both males and females. Boys stats look like this:

-    Over 25% refuses to deal with stress
-    23% tries to find a way not to deal with stress but to actually distract themselves from that thought
-    17% asked for help and support
-    35% is actively trying to reduce and confront their stress

Girls stats looked like this:

-    19% avoids to deal with stress (less than boys)
-    14% tried to distract themselves from dealing with stress and stress situations (less than boys)
-    22% asked for help and support
-    45% is actually trying to deal with stress and reduce stress

From this we can clearly see that girls are more likely to deal with stress and seek help, while boys are more likely to find a distraction and avoid to face stress head on. In the same study girls showed that they actually experience much more stress than teen boys, from peer pressure, pressure of sexual intercourse and of course school and family.

This study also showed that it might be wise to separate teen stress management programs for boys and girls as they have very different causes of stress and they react in different ways. Avoiding stress can be very unhealthy as the stress knows how to accumulate; releasing stress is the only way to maintain your mental health.
Luckily more and more schools are implementing stress management programs in the US. Teachers and faculty members are being educated in stress management and how to help their students. If you are unsure how to deal with stress you should talk to your adults, seniors or teachers. For more information about teen stress and how to deal with it there are plenty of teen stress resources online.

 

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September 2, 2010

Teen Sleeping Disorders

Most teenagers start sleeping less and less or more and more as the time passes. Some teens have trouble falling asleep at night and sleep till late in the afternoon, in most cases that is normal, it is caused by overload, emotional issues, but in some cases we are talking about sleeping disorders. Even if it is not a sleeping disorder, sleep deprivation over a longer period of time can lead to sleep deficit.

Sleep deficit causes the body to learn a routine, a very unhealthy routine, it goes until you are too tired to think and you want to sleep but can’t. Your body is used to not sleeping and fails to go down. Sleep deficit causes plenty of unwanted effects like lack of concentration, weight loss, depression and many other things.

There is more to this than just the restless teen spirit, in fact our body starts to work differently about that age. One of the things that is different is the production of melatonin hormone, when we enter the teen years we start to produce melatonin late at night, and that is why we have trouble falling asleep. That settles down with adulthood for most of the people. So this is our first and basic reason why we have trouble sleeping in teen years, but from there on we can develop insomnia very easy, all you need to add to the combination is stress, maybe a headache or any other discomfort and you have yourself insomnia.

Well, this is not something to panic about, we all have insomnia every now and then, the question is how long it lasts. If it is a few days then it’s a normal thing and we shouldn’t sound the alarm, but if it persists over a longer period of time you need to consider it as chronic insomnia and you need to get your child to a treatment.

Nightmares are one of the causes of insomnia and sleeping disorders. Not just a night or two, nightmares are known to cause sleeping problems for a longer period of time and such cases are considered dangerous. The reason why they are dangerous is that they lead to mental instability and are caused in most cases by alcohols and drug abuse, stress, sleep deprivation.

A very common sleeping disorder is narcolepsy, which is when we fall asleep uncontrolled. This usually goes on for a few weeks until the body gets back to normal, but chronic narcolepsy can be very dangerous and such person needs to be supervised at all times. People that have chronic narcolepsy are forbidden to drive and do other similar activities as they never know when they are going to fall asleep and put theirs and other people’s lives in danger.

Sleeping disorders and sleep deprivation are very harmful for teens bodies, over a longer period of time sleeping disorders may cause brain damage, affect healing rates, attention, concentration, learning capabilities, weight loss and weight gain and diabetes and kidney failure. In some cases it causes delusions and mental instability, so these are all the reasons to take your teen child straight to the doctor’s office.

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June 29, 2010

How Should Teenagers Deal With Divorce

Divorce of parents can be a sign of a great change for some, and since half the marriages in the US end in a divorce, we are talking about a big number of teens that have to deal with this issue. Basically half of the kids in the US have gone through a divorce of their parents and that makes it one of the most troubling issues we have right now. The fact that there are so many teens going through the same situation is not very helpful for them as they may feel like they are the only ones in the world with this problem. But, there are always ways for teens to cope with divorce of their parents and have a normal teen life.


A common situation when parents get a divorce is that teens think that they are to blame, that all of that is somehow their fault, but that has nothing to do with the truth. The reasons for divorce are many, but children are not among them. But that is hard to explain to an emotionally insecure teen. Many teenagers will think they could have done something to prevent it and if there was something they could have done that would make them change their mind. At that point teens heart starts dealing with hundreds of different emotions and that is when the teen problem about coping and dealing with divorce situation gets serious.

Today most of this can be avoided because parents know how to go through a divorce and live as less emotional trouble on their teen child as possible. There are ways to go through a divorce the so called “good way”. But in the end as parents might have a grieving process, so will the child. And here are a few things that will help a teenager deal with the divorce of his parents:

-    Future and what happens in it is one of the most important factors for a teenager. Most teens fear about their future and what will change because of the divorce. The best course of action is to sit down and openly talk with your parents about how their divorce influences you and your future and don’t put it off, the sooner you talk to them the better.
-    Dealing with stress is one of the hardest things in a divorce, for parents and for teens. The best thing you can do is find something that you love and concentrate on it for a certain part of the day so you would still have something to look forward to during the process. That little action, hobby or whatever will relieve your stress significantly.
-    As your parents are struggling with their new lives so should you, keeping a normal and healthy social life will help you go through the divorce much quicker.
-    Don’t be afraid to ask for help and support, there are plenty of kids going through the same thing as you and they can help you deal with the situation. Talking to others is always a good course of action.

Many teens go through a divorce, some don’t even feel it and some go through a hell of a rough time. The bottom line is that you will be amazed how strong and adaptive you may be in the end. Never lose sight of your goals and never turn down help that has been offered, as many before you, you will make it through this alive.

 

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May 17, 2010

Government Resources for Teens

Since the world we are living in is not such a perfect place and we never know what’s around the corner the best bet for all of us is to be prepared for any possible situation. How do we get prepared? Very simple, we inform ourselves using what available resources we have. Seeing how informing yourself is a big issue and a recognized one for that fact, US government has plenty of information needed by any teen to go through all sorts of situations. So for teens wanting to inform themselves about getting into a college, traveling abroad, education in general, jobs, volunteering and health and safety, there are plenty of resources available online, the US government saw to that.

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The need to inform ourselves is there, and what better way to stay safe then to be prepared. But it’s not just about staying safe; teenagers that want a better education but can’t afford it may find useful information on government resource sites, like scholarships, grants or the way to pay for their education in a more approachable manner.

Let’s say you are planning a trip abroad, but the country you are going to is not one familiar to you, so what I the best way to prepare for that trip? Simply go online to one of the government resource sites and you can find all of the needed info, like what the currency in that country is and what the exchange rates are. The other things you can find that are needed are passport application, if a visa is needed and most important where are the US embassies and what parts of that country you might want to avoid.  You can find anything that you will possibly need to prepare yourself for that trip and know hat to expect when you get there.

Another great benefit of government resource sites is that you can use them to find a summer job. I’m not talking about simple jobs; you can even find internships with the federal government. You can explore your career options and pick the right one for you, and once you do that nothing stops you from going to the next page on the site and learn about the best ways to save the money you earned.

Of course the biggest issue and the biggest reason teens decide to look for help online are health and safety issues. These types of sites will provide information that will help you deal with almost any possible situation a teenager can encounter, so if you wish to inform yourself before you take some action or learn what type of action the next step might be, you came to the right place. US government sites cover anything from learning disabilities, to drug abuse, sexuality, eating disorders and depression. So whatever it is that you might want to learn about, you can probably find all of the needed info on these sites. And you should, when you feel you have a problem, if you have someone to talk to that is perfect, do that, but if you are not sure who to talk to and what to do about something this is the safest way to educate yourself and learn what the next step might be, and it’s absolutely anonymous, so you won’t have to be ashamed of anything.

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May 4, 2010

Teen Intervention Options

From article to article we stress out how important a parent’s constant involvement is in teenagers life. But we can’t bully them into listening, unfortunately for them and for us as parents they may go over the line and that is when we as parents can’t afford a luxury of going easy on them. I am not talking about yelling or God forbid hitting them, I am talking when you find your teenager child in over his head and you need to make an intervention.

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For parents that went through this type of crisis this will sound familiar, but for those that didn’t this is a chance to prepare themselves, especially if you already suspect that your child is using drugs or alcohol. Whatever you do, you don’t want to yell at them. Although the situation is difficult you need to calm down and have a relaxed talk with your family to get to the bottom of this. By doing that you may get closer to your troubled teenager and they may volunteer to better themselves, instead of you pushing them towards the goal.
Your conversation will be quite more productive if you keep these few simple things in mind. You need to show your concern, but at the same time you mustn’t lose your temper. You need to be direct, always watch the tone of voice in which you are speaking, you don’t wish to cause more confusion and the most important thing is to show your love and care during the conversation.
Now this can all be done as a precaution, in fact it should be done, at that time you need to set down the rules and make your teenager aware of the consequences he or she may face if they fail to listen. Now there are two different things a parent needs to look out for, if you suspect your child is using and if you know that your child is using. If you suspect, you will need to look around the house and the child’s room to find any evidence. Yeah it feels like snooping, but you are doing that because you care for your child. You should look everywhere common, after that you should look in CD cases, small boxes, in a plant, maybe buried in the dirt, in books, and even inside empty candy bags and bottles with false bottoms. If you know your child is using then you need keep a track of when did your child start using, where did your child get whatever it is that it’s using, his or hers friends and their parents, even online friends and most importantly the most dialed numbers on their cell phone.
The last step is to get help, now before that becomes a last minute intervention you can seek help from many sources. Getting outside help doesn’t necessarily mean rehab. You can seek help from school counselors, family doctor and of course you can always seek help from a professional on that matter. Getting help is something you should do, there is no such thing as shame when it comes to your child’s health and safety. You can find a few good sources in this article, if you can recognize your situation in this article visit those sites; they may help you deal with the situation.

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