Parenting Teens Blog

September 8, 2010

Tips for Parents to Manage Their Teen behind the Wheel

Every parent is worried about their teen getting behind a wheel of the car, teens are also scared but they can’t wait so they might do something without thinking and get in trouble. The trouble we are talking about is not just getting pulled over and getting a ticket, but they can also get in a car accident and even hurt themselves or others, which is why it is of the greatest importance for parents to learn their children how to drive properly and to set up a few rules for driving. Here are some of the tips that will help you manage your teen behind the wheel.

First thing you need to do is set the right example from an early age. Most parents don’t realize that from the moment your child starts driving with you in the car you are actually teaching him how to drive. Everything you do while driving will be seen by your kid and it will be much harder later when you actually teach him how to drive. It will be much harder to teach him not to use a cell phone while driving if he saw you doing the same thing countless of times. So the first rule is to lead by example, drive your car responsibly all the time, that will influence your child and when the time comes for him to sit behind the wheel it will be much easier and safer for everyone.

Although most parents can teach their teen how to drive perfectly it is always good to enroll your teen into driving classes where an objective and without emotions involved professional will teach your teen how to drive. But, be sure to get involved and talk with your teen what he has learned in those classes.

Go over the rules of the road with your child, make sure that he knows and understands every sign and every rule. Why he needs to stop at certain signs, what is the safe distance, what is forbidden in the vehicle and so on. It is of the greatest importance that your child understands why those things need to be done, not just to learn them by heart.

Setting the rules of the road is also a great way to influence your teen’s driving. Make sure you set the rules and be strict about them, create a contract stating what your teen can do with the car, how he should maintain his vehicle and make sure that when he breaks any of the rules you give him a proper disciplinary measure in order to ensure that he doesn’t repeat the same mistake.

One of the most important things that you need to do as a parent is get the right type of vehicle for your teen or if you are letting your teen drive your car make sure that your insurance covers your teen on all accounts. Safety comes first, never forget that.

These are just some of the tips that will help you and your teen feel safer when your child is behind the wheel.

 

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September 5, 2010

Helping Your Teen Learn How To Drive

Learning to drive is one of the parts of growing up for every teen and most teens can’t wait to get behind the wheel, which is one more reason for parents to take things into their own hands and ensure that their child knows the dangers of the road and understands the responsibility of being a driver. Learning your teen how to drive can be a real nerve wrecker for both teenagers and parents, for teens it is obvious why, for parents; well they are worried about their child, about their car and about general safety. We all know what dangers the road can bring, so it is normal that we are nervous the first time.

But we as parents have the responsibility of preparing our children for the road by helping them practice their driving skills one skill at a time. That will help them develop confidence behind the wheel, it will help them get some experience behind the wheel and it will eventually prepare your teen for the road that lies ahead.
One thing you have to understand as a parent and as a new driving teacher is that you need to have more patience than your child. Learning how to drive is not hard, but experience is what counts. The more experience and more driving hours the more confident the drivers become and his skills also become better. Set your goals for each driving lesson and never go for long driving lessons as concentration can fall for both of you, you want to keep it short but effective. Start with an empty parking lot:

-    Practice turning and braking
-    Let your child get the feel for the wheel and the car itself
-    Practice where the basic commands are, defrosters, lights, windshield wipers
-    How to slow down around curves
-    How to stop a car and how to approach a stop sign
-    Understanding the rules of the road and reading signs
-    How to keep a safe follow distance
-    How to make a left turn on a two way road
-    How to navigate around animals, bikers, runners and pedestrians

Once all of these basics are down you can practice more advance driving on a busier road or highways.

-    How to change lanes
-    How to merge into traffic
-    How to maintain a safe speed
-    How to understand different lanes
-    Practice approaching, slowing down and stopping at traffic lights

Teach your teen how to anticipate other drivers behavior, how to follow rules of the road until all of that is imprinted into his hands, feet and his reflexes. One of the things that you should never skip is teaching your child how to drive in different conditions, some people have hard time with night driving, so make sure you go out a few times after the sun sets. Also, some people learn how to drive in the summer and when the winter comes they can’t handle their car with all the snow and ice, so make sure that you cover everything when you are teaching your teen how to drive. Take it slow, one lesson at a time, be patient and become a resource for your child and everything will turn out great.

 

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