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October 6, 2009

The Teen’s Brain

Today’s teenagers have been stereotyped as adventurous and harebrained individuals.  They are generally fond of experimenting with things until they get in touch with drugs, sex, guns, alcohol among others. According to the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention figures, 16,000 young adults die each year from unintentional injuries and accidents.  The most common justification for teenagers’ care-free attitude is that their brains just aren’t developed enough to know better. However, recent research shows that in some cases the fact is just the opposite, the brain matures not too slowly but perhaps, too quickly.

According to a psychiatrist, an adolescent who engages in more dangerous activities have white-matter pathways that seem to be more mature than those of risk-averse youths.  White-matter is the brain’s wiring, the neutral pathways that connect the various gray-matter regions of the cerebrum that are independent of one another.  Having a mature white-matter is necessary because it allows faster brain processing speed.  Nerve impulses also travel faster in mature white-matter. Experiments also reveal that the more mature the look of the brain, the more adventurous the teenager tended to be.
Another possible explanation is that some teenagers whose brains develop more rapidly than others become uncomfortable and a little confused owing to the gap between their biological capabilities and the social norms they must follow as kids. Precocious development of these neural tracts may make some adolescents more susceptible to engage in behaviors that society considers too adult in nature for their chronological age. It is also a common notion that teens make dumb decisions because their brains are immature. In other words, having a more mature brain may actually motivate some teens to try out new and potentially harmful experiences.
For now, these theories are mere speculation, and the researchers concede that the interaction of white and gray matter is so complex that hard conclusions remain elusive. The results of the study are relatively bare and by no means conclusive. The human brain is so intricate in nature, and one has to consider the fact that there are other factors that come into play such as the environment and certain genetic predispositions that are equally complex to study.

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August 26, 2009

High School and it’s Variables

It is amazing how fast things can change; how pure innocence can turn to arrogance and adventuresome. It seems up until your first year in high school, you feel safe from anything. You are preoccupied with life as how you knew it from the start, when in school you’re intrigued to hear rumors in junior high, they're usually about who likes who, and who broke up with who. It just seems so naive. But when you stepped into high school, it becomes an entirely different ballgame. Somehow you seem to have been stripped of all your innocence. Suddenly you become vulnerable to the evils that you knew nothing about before. It seems the only thing people talk about is either sex or drug use. We all know of so many personalities who have so much potential to do great things in life, but threw it all away when they started to use drugs. This is the daunting scenario that we have today. We are aware of it, the government is aware of it, law enforcers are aware of it but still the nagging problem persists and threatens the fragile future of our youth today. Numbers don’t lie. Nearly half of all high school seniors in America have experimented with illegal drugs and about three quarters have tried alcohol. A study conducted on the drug use prevalence among high school seniors in the US revealed the following: 41.8% have tried marijuana and at least 5% uses it everyday; 7.8% have used cocaine; 1.5% have tried heroin; 72.2% have used alcohol and 3.1% take alcohol daily; 6.5% have tried ecstasy; 8.4% have tried using hallucinogens (LSD, Magic Mushrooms, Peyote); and at least 15.4% have reported having used prescription drugs (Vicodin, OxyContin etc.) to get high. These are alarming statistics but equally disturbing is how easily high school students can get hold of these prohibited drugs. The dilemma that we have today is worse than what our parents had to deal with; and at the rate things are going it is quite likely that by the time you have kids, the situation will be ten times worse than what it is today. The problem should be addressed now with more stringent measures and from different fronts. It should be a collective and conscious effort from the government, school administrations and more importantly the parents. Parents should be educated about the dangers facing their teens today because they are for real and are likely to stay if nothing is done to stem the problem. The government should make laws with much more teeth in them so as to deter drug dealers and manufacturers who are selling these substances like pancakes. Schools must have more effective screening and monitoring systems to keep drugs away from their vicinity and thus give their students a good shot for a productive college life.  Illicit drugs seem to fall in and out of favor with experimental youths.  But one thing is constant, more and more teens are experimenting with it. The perils are great and more threatening than ever, but studies consistently show that teens whose parents talk to them about drugs are at a much lower risk to experiment.

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October 3, 2008

Family Drama, Family Addict by Jacob Malewitz

Filed under: addiction — admin @ 2:04 pm

Youth drug use is here to stay. According to the government Office of Supplied Studies, drug use is strongest in people from the ages of 14-22. For example, 11 in 100 of youths aged 14-15 used drugs in the past month, according to one featured study. There are answers to this problem, and some which other guides fail to mention. For if drug use is here to stay, parenting, which has always been prominent in defeating drug addiction, is here to stay too.

Talk:
It’s simple: by talking about things with youths, often explaining things alone will work. At some point in their life, it’s likely a young adult will at least try drugs. If you demystify the drug, making it less of an unknown, it may sooth some of the curiosity.

When to Lecture:
Sometimes explaining the dangers of drugs isn’t enough. So when do you go for the old-fashioned lecture? You do when you see a problem occurring. Make the lecture something outside of a lecture. For example, offer the statistics on fatal deaths from drug use. It’s important to know the popular drugs on the market too, like marijuana. Then you decide whether the lecture is working or not. Are they listening to you or the peer pressure? Or do they seem interested  in what you are saying?

Offer Hobbies:
Next, drug use, in some fashion or another, is more than just about curiosity. Sometimes it’s about being bored. This isn’t a stretch: many of us like to party and have fun in some way or another. However, for youth hobbies are crucial. One of the best methods to encourage your youth to stay away from drugs is to use sports like basketball or football. These will be positive experiences. Encourage them with gifts for success too, like buying them a new movie after receiving an A on a test. Simple things can help stop family drama. Some children are not adept at sports, so you would encourage them more toward things like arts or school.

When to Act:
There are times when you have to stop being a friend to your son or daughter. There are many that get high on a daily basis, some who die from mixing drugs, and some who are lured from drinking alcohol toward using illicit drugs. You need to act on your own, which is the first step. Counsel those you love-maybe your parents or the spouse-on what is going on. See if you can handle it; if you can’t, it’s time to seek professional help.

Seeking Professionals:
Sometimes your son or daughter will be in a classic rebellion period. The problem is, it seems drug use is becoming more and more addictive, while at the same time becoming more dangerous. Recent studies by the Office of Supplied Studies show that, while small in comparison to deaths from smoking cigarettes, drug use does kill thousands every year. It’s time to take the problem to a drug counselor, or to seek treatment for your son or daughter.

Final Tip:
Family drama tends to get made into something bigger than it is. The facts are, most of us will use drugs at some point in our lives; the statistics don’t lie. However, a family drug addict can still become a bad person. They can cheat, steal, and lie. But you can’t walk away from them. Following this order of steps is just a beginning. Sometimes seeking more spiritual and emotional help, from maybe priests or pastors, can lead to an understanding of the problem-and lead you away from thinking the family addict uses because of you.

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June 27, 2008

Important questions to ask

The following are important question to ask when looking for a prospective substance abuse treatment facility or service.

1.  Why do you believe this treatment in this program is indicated for my child? How does it compare to other programs or services which are available?

2. What are the credentials and experience of the members of the treatment team, and will the team include a child and adolescent psychiatrist with knowledge and skills in substance abuse treatment?

3. What treatment approaches does this program use regarding chemical dependency; detoxification; abstinence; individual, family, and group therapy; use of medications; a twelve-step program; mutual-help groups; relapse prevention; and a continuing recovery process?

4. Based on your evaluation, does my child have other psychiatric problems in addition to the substance abuse problem? If so, will these be addressed in the treatment process?

5. How will our family be involved in our child’s substance abuse treatment — including the decision for discharge and the after-care?

6. What will treatment cost? Are the costs covered by my insurance or health plan?

7. How will my child continue education while in treatment?

8. If this treatment is provided in a hospital or residential program, is it approved by the Joint Commission for the Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations (JCAHO)? Is this substance abuse treatment program a separate unit accredited for youngsters of our child’s age?

9. How will the issue of confidentiality be handled during and after treatment?

10. How long will this phase of the treatment process continue? Will we reach our insurance limit before treatment in this phase is completed?

11. When my child is discharged from this phase of treatment, how will it be decided what types of ongoing treatment will be necessary, how often, and for how long?

12. As my child’s problem improves, does this program provide less intensive/step-down treatment services?

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Where to get help?

Filed under: addiction,adolescents,interventions,Teen Help — admin @ 3:25 pm

Many children and adolescents use alcohol and other drugs. Some develop serious problems which require professional help to control. Such as inpatient treatment, outpatient treatment, twelve step programs, and dual diagnosis units for individuals with emotional and substance abuse problems.

There are a variety of substance abuse treatment programs. The decision to get treatment for a child or adolescent is difficult, and parents are encouraged to seek consultation from a child and adolescent psychiatrist when making decisions about substance abuse treatment. Other psychiatric disorders often co-exist with substance abuse problems and need assessment and treatment.

Severe substance abuse and chemical dependence in adolescence may be a chronic relapsing disorder. Parents should ask what treatment services are available for continued or future treatment.

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