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July 1, 2010

Types of Addiction

When people talk about addiction they usually mean drug or alcohol addiction, but the fact is that there are dozens of different types of addictions. And the sad truth is that most of us have a certain type of addiction, the thing is we don’t know it and we don’t acknowledge it as such. A new type of addiction, a very popular one, is surfing, or Facebook and social media platforms. There are people that are online 24/7 and have been since they discovered Facebook. That is just an example, so read this article carefully and get to know what types of addictions are there, you never know.

 


The most basic type of addiction is alcohol addiction; this is the most represented type. Some experts claim that alcoholism is a disease, while other think differently. The thing about alcohol is that it is unpredictable, some people are addicted from the second they taste it, while others may drink for years on a social level before it gets them.

 

The next well known type is drug addiction. Since there are a lot of drugs and each one of them has a different effect this is a subject on its own. But it is clear that this is the type of addiction that people fear the most, and for a reason.
After these two hardcore types of addiction we have one of the most represented types of addiction in the world, caffeine addiction. I know that most people think that caffeine addiction is a myth, but it is a fact that caffeine is a central nervous system stimulant, in other words, it’s addictive.

 

And then we have tobacco, the greatest pleasure bearing health problems and poisoning others that are nearby. When you think about it, a cigarette is like a radioactive substance, a nuclear bomb, you don’t have to hold it in your hands, you just have to be near enough to suffer the consequences.

 

But besides the ones you already knew there are less known and less talked about types of addiction, like food addiction for example. Very popular type of addiction is internet addiction, and I say popular because no one seems to mind. But it wouldn’t be called an addiction if there wasn’t at least something bad about it. What is bad about hanging too much online is that our social skills are degrading. Although some may argue that I will ask them for their opinion the next time they try to talk to a real life person that doesn’t have anything to do with Facebook or other social media platforms.

 

Addictions are everywhere around us, either we don’t notice that we don’t have them or we are very close to crossing the line. Just think about it, there is a relationship addiction, who says that we are not addicted to being with someone. And this doesn’t mean one person in particular; this is just a desire to be with someone at all costs, never to be alone. We all have those fears, but are we addicted?

 

And of course there is my favorite, the modern women addiction or shopping addiction. On a funny note, how many men have found their wallets empty during the years? This is a good warning for all the teenagers that are thinking of going out shopping with their girlfriends.

 

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April 10, 2010

Rehab, Getting Rid of Teen Substance Abuse

More and more teenagers are becoming addicted to something, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs even technology like cell phones and internet, they simply cannot live without those things. But the most critical form of abuse is substance abuse. Substance abuse like drugs and alcohol may cause unimaginable consequences for a teenager, so once parents see the symptoms they should act immediately. This is the perfect place to inform yourself about the symptoms of drug abuse, but in this article we will cover the next step, alcohol and drug rehab.

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Teen drug abuse has reached a new high, alcohol is standing in its place, it has even lowered a bit. But drugs are on the rise for the last 7 years according to statistics, so checking up on your child might be a good idea, but you need to do that in a loving way that allows communication, there is no need to go Gestapo on your child. Once you figure out that your child is using drugs you need to consult a professional, they will most likely recommend a good drug rehab clinic for your child. But that is the part where you make a choice for your child, because getting your child to a wrong clinic is the same as not getting him to a clinic at all.
What you need to do is again educate yourself about possible treatments and measures that need to be taken in order to get your child back on track. I know that this can be a very painful process, but you need to understand one very important thing, the longer your teenager stays in a clinic for rehab the better. Almost 60% of drug users suffer a relapse after finishing rehab, most of that is due to a short rehab time. Rehab is not only used to clear the body and cure the physical addiction, which a short rehab therapy can do. No, you need a longer rehab for your child allowing him to get rid of substance abuse mentally, to allow his mind to become stronger and realize that he doesn’t need drugs anymore. Statistics have also shown that only 20% of teenagers attending a longer rehab have suffered relapse.
In the end there are many other things to keep in mind, when approaching a rehab clinic you need to be sure to check every aspect so you can feel at ease knowing that your child is in good hands. After all you are doing this for his or hers well being. This is a serious problem and requires a serious approach, but the most important thing about rehab is the love and unconditional support of the family and friends. With that in mind you can’t go wrong.

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March 20, 2010

Teen Technology Addiction

In the past decade technology has developed considerably, now every kid has a cell phone and every teenager has a computer. We must admit that in this day and age having a cell phone and a computer is necessary, but is there a chance of misuse of this technology or is it affecting our children in a negative manner? Unfortunately the answer is yes, overuse of cell phones and computers can have negative effects on our children.

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Today’s news all talk about tech abuse by teenagers, or is it other way around. The newspaper headlines are filled with phrases like cell phone junkie and video game addiction. Are those things real, according to some institutions and some states that is true. In fact some states have banned the use of cell phones in schools because according to the newest research children are getting distracted in numerous ways by their cell phone. That is not all, 40% of children ages 11 to 18 admitted that text messages have diminished their knowledge of English language. Their spelling is down, because they are used to typing short text messages and using internet slang like “LOL” or “BRB”.

The other thing is video game addiction, children playing too much games, and it doesn’t matter what kind of games they play, have been known to become antisocial. They distance themselves and there is a high chance of going into a fantasy, an online game can turn a kid from docile and passive to an aggressive state. This is something that should be limited from start, nobody can forbid the children from playing games, but the games they play and the amount of time they spend playing must be monitored.

There are all types of technology addiction; internet is the number one addiction of all. Children that are passive in school develop a totally different personality over the internet talking to someone over the net. That can affect a child in many ways; the first one is becoming antisocial in real life, distancing himself from others, friends and family included. Child that uses internet must be monitored; there is always a great risk of identity theft. Children at a younger age don’t realize the importance of keeping private information private.

This is something that may cause trouble for children in the future as they grow up. Everyone must admit that the technology is the future and our children must be in touch with it, but there need to be some boundaries. None of us wants our children walking like zombies only communicating with each other from safety of their home stuck to a computer.

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November 3, 2009

World’s Strictest Parents

Mom and Dad struggling with their sons behavior

The World’s Strictest Parents is a television series conceptualized and brought into fruition by Twenty Twenty Television and was originally broadcasted by BBC. The United States’ Country Music Television (CMT) and Australia’s Channel Seven both came up with their local versions of the hit TV series.

The primary concept behind the show is that two “unruly” teenagers are sent packing by their parents to live overseas with a strict host family for an entire week in an attempt to modify their heedless behavior. During the week they would receive an impact letter from their birth parents with a list of issues that they should try to correct.

In the United States, it takes on the format of a reality TV show with a running time of one hour. It was originally slated to be aired by MTV and the pilot episode was broadcasted on April 18, 2009. CMT eventually took over the show which is currently on its second season. Unlike the original series, the teenagers remained in their country and their parents came for them to evaluate their stay with the host family. In Britain, two teens leave their own family each week and lives for ten days under the roofs and rules of some of the World’s Strictest Parents. The series ventured on different locations – from Accra to Alabama, from Jaipur to Jamaica, unruly teenage Brits have experienced the discipline, educational values and uncompromising strictness of parents who have embraced the notion that enforcing firm discipline is the only way to raise a well-rounded teenager.

In the U.S., CMT features the remarkable journey of two unruly teens from different families as they are compelled to conform to the rules and regulations of their strict host parents. As they experience to live under different standards away from their own families, the ill-behaved teens will be subjected to punishment for skipping chores and breaking rules while the strict host parents try to fix their behavior.

The series tries to impart that rearing teenagers and enforcing traditional rules is no easy task. However, over time learning to live with certain limitations and enforced consequences will develop unique emotional journeys and personal turnarounds in teen behavior. Spending some time away from home enables the teenagers to reflect on how badly they treat their parents. The teenagers go through a roller-coaster of emotions and realizations – from culture shock to personal enrichment, from flare-ups and outbursts to heartrending re-unions, the teenagers experience what it’s like to live with strict rules and firm discipline – and learn to feel and appreciate the benefits.

For the second season, an all-new episode of the World’s Strictest Parents premiered on October 10 at 8:00 p.m. The regular timeslot is Saturdays at 8:00 to 9:00 p.m., ET/PT.

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October 27, 2009

Trends and Changes for Teens and Sex

Over the past few decades there has been a drastic change in sexual behavior among teenagers. It is quite glaring that teen females have gradually become more liberated and sexually aggressive, to the point of being promiscuous. There is absolutely an upheaval in the sexual context of what is socially acceptable and what is not. Teenage behavior has changed dramatically and it appears to veer toward homosexual behaviors. There seems to be more awareness of sex-linked diseases and teenage pregnancy has generally become more acceptable.

Whatever norms that society has set in the past seem to have gone out the window. Some teens create their own norms based on what they “feel” instead of what is socially acceptable as appropriate behavior. Sadly, some teens have the notion that if something feels good, then it should be okay. No one can argue that sex is going to feel good. It should feel good because it was designed that way, but it doesn’t mean that it is appropriate all the time.

Sex ought to be something quite intimate – almost sacred, but it has become an art among today’s teenagers. Teens have found ways to engage in sex without inducing pregnancy. Sex itself has become a multi-million dollar industry. People know that sex sells, especially among teens. Go to the mall and you’ll see public displays of sexuality in some of the windows of shops. Go online and it’s basically the same scenario. You may even hear negative comments from teens about such stores yet they still have a strong desire to shop in such stores. Sex now has a price tag and is currently marketed as being fulfilling and romantic. It is apparently safe and easy and one can simply walk away with no strings attached.

Such a radical shift in the concept of sex among teenagers has been largely influenced by media, by peers, and by the culture and locations in which they live. There are three reasons why teens engage in sex as some form of recreation. These include irresponsible parents, puberty and desire, and the need for love. As soon as the word love comes into the picture, the green light for having sex greatly increases. If a boy professes love for a girl, then she becomes more likely to succumb to sexual pressure than if he doesn’t.

Parents need to constantly show their love to their teens because if the need for love is being met, they won’t have to look for it in the arms of another teen. Parents need to explain the emotional impact and the repercussions that come along with giving one’s sexuality to another. They need to help teenagers look past the fleeting pleasure derived from sex. Teens should learn to set lifetime goals for the future and consider whether having a child would fit into those goals. By having a clear set of goals for the future, teens won’t be easily swept by a sudden surge of emotions and they would be smart enough to gauge whether having a child is worth the risk of engaging into a momentary act of passion. Finally, parents must impart the value of self-control. Talk to your teen, explain to them how modern society is portraying sexuality and personal convictions. Keep them informed so they won’t be tempted to try something that they would regret later on.


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